What is wrong with me!!!?? have i gone demented!!!!?

first thing man, women dont like guys that dont like themselves. start speaking your mind more often, dont let things pass that a normal person wouldn. dont be a push over, if you dont already start working out and getting active, maybe cutting your hair or wearing it differently would effect the outlook of people around you, become active in sports, or social groups. i know they sound ciche, but social groups do help, and maybe drink some neuro bliss... its a happy drink